Your Questions About Paper Trading Online

Sandra asks…

How come doing drugs (amphetamines and or cocaine) allows me to motivate myself to do things?

I never painted a car, I got high, then learned via the internet how to paint a car and do my own body work, painted with a bunch of spray cans, used rubbing compound, varying grades of sand paper, bought an orbital buffer (traded sht at a pawn shop for it really) and painted my car over 3 days teaching myself how to do it. I never thought I could do something like this, and never would have if I wasn’t high, then I tried to make money online high, I got my blog up to 500 hits over two days and never did that with countless hours sober? Although I only made $14 and some change on adsense, how come I did things I never thought I could accomplish and succeeded at them? (I also used a dropshipping service to make $100 profit on e-bay, it amazes me.) I know drugs are very convincing of their users, but I really made things happen that I thought I couldn’t. Its not just me thinking I do amazing stuff on them, but actually the ability to feel that I will succeed and achieve it, I do not have direction except for work+time=money when sober, I do not want to use drugs, but I do not want to work if I can make this amount of money online, what should I do?
so maybe its not even me that painted my car or made that money? It is the drugs that did it?
I feel like I am buying into a “get rich quick” scheme when I think about making money online sober, even attempting it feels like a wasted effort, high, I think “I am going to make this work”, I think “If this doesn’t work, then there must be a reason, because it worked for others”. Sober I think “The internet is monopolized by big corporations”, “No one will buy my stuff if they can buy it for less”. High I think “Mabye people buy the best advertised products regardless of cost”, “Mabye if I sell items in the middle of the price range I can make money under the radar”
I feel like I should never have been able to do things I did, and the answers seem to reflect that idea? Is this the product of social conditioning and rationalization, or the truth? (American ideals are f**ked)
So, that does not give me much confidence in free will, if doing drugs makes it easier for me to do what I want, then why does the world value the outcomes of drug induced productivity? Could it be that the desired outcomes are where the problem lies? Could it be that I really do not desire the outcomes and only think I do? The more answers I get to this, the questions I have, as of now I feel it is unanswered.

John answers:

The freedom of being tired or exhausted for a few hours is not for free. There is a risk for addiction
and dopamine releasers increase blood pressure. There will be an increased tiredness (sleeping like a log) and you might crave for a higher dosage with time. Please be careful. You are dancing with the devil.

David asks…

How do I respark my relationship? I think my BF is getting bored and I don’t want to lose him. HELP!?

We have been together for 6 1/2 years, he says he loves me and that we should get married one day. Lately, he seems to be obcessed with this girl he had a crush on in the 8th grade, that was over 10 years ago! He wrote on a paper (that I found, wasn’t supposed to I guess) that he regrets not having a serisous relationship with her. He’s looking her up online and reading her thesis papers (he’s never read anything I’ve written). He’s looking up pictures of her and he even was talking to ME about her for a while before I asked him to stop. Does his regrets about her mean he would trade me to go back in time to be with her?! Or does itt mean he’s just getting bored with our relationship. I don’t get it, he doesn’t even know her! She’s not great looking, I feel like I’m much more attractive, I just don’t understand! I’m heartbroken and he doesn’t think it’s a big deal. HELP!

John answers:

Give him one last chance. Tell him that you need to talk to him and that you’d appreciate it if he takes it seriously. Explain to him that it’s a big deal to you because it is hurting you. If he respects you, he will at least sit down with you and listen to what you have to say. Ask him if there’s anything that’s bothering him and if there’s anything you can do to help. Ask him if he wants to stay with you or take a chance with someone else.

Prepare yourself for whatever happens. I’m sure you love him but there’s nothing you can do if he doesn’t want to at least respect you. If he doesn’t see how lucky he is, then really, it’s his loss. It’s been a while since he was single and probably miss the single life.

Donald asks…

My BF has a crush on a girl he hasn’t seen in over 10 years & is practically STALKING her on the internet!

We have been together for 6 1/2 years, he says he loves me and that we should get married one day. All of a sudden, he is obcessed with this girl he had a crush on in the 8th grade, that was over 10 years ago! He wrote on a paper (that I found, wasn’t supposed to I guess) that he regrets not having a serisous relationship with her. He’s looking her up online and reading her thesis papers (he’s never read anything I’ve written). He’s looking up pictures of her and he even was talking to ME about her for a while before I asked him to stop. Does his regrets about her mean he would trade me to go back in time to be with her?! I don’t get it, he doesn’t even know her! She’s not great looking, I feel like I’m much more attractive, I just don’t understand! I’m heartbroken and he doesn’t think it’s a big deal. HELP!

John answers:

This is really serious. Talk to your boyfriend! Tell him how you feel and what you think is unacceptable. This is unacceptable in my opinion. He should be committed to you wholly and not think of some unknown backyard girl! All the best sweetie. =)

James asks…

My BF has a crush on a girl he hasn’t seen in 10 years & is practically STALKING her on the internet! HELP!

We have been together for 6 1/2 years, he says he loves me and that we should get married one day. All of a sudden, he is obcessed with this girl he had a crush on in the 8th grade, that was over 10 years ago! He wrote on a paper (that I found, wasn’t supposed to I guess) that he regrets not having a serisous relationship with her. He’s looking her up online and reading her thesis papers (he’s never read anything I’ve written). He’s looking up pictures of her and he even was talking to ME about her for a while before I asked him to stop. Does his regrets about her mean he would trade me to go back in time to be with her?! I don’t get it, he doesn’t even know her! She’s not great looking, I feel like I’m much more attractive, I just don’t understand! I’m heartbroken and he doesn’t think it’s a big deal. HELP!

John answers:

Quit wondering about his feelings and ask him. He’s being a total dummy. For whatever reason he has this fantasy, he has to know that odds are they wouldn’t end up together even if you weren’t in the picture.
Get real with him. Make him understand that you two have had love for 6 1/2 years and that he never had anything with her. What’s real and fantasy are so different. Remind him that she might be a total bitch in a relationship, or something like that.
And if he continues, he’s probably not worth your time.

Richard asks…

My BF has a crush on a girl he hasn’t seen in 10 years & he’s practically STALKING her on the internet! HELP!

We have been together for 6 1/2 years, he says he loves me and that we should get married one day. All of a sudden, he is obcessed with this girl he had a crush on in the 8th grade, that was over 10 years ago! He wrote on a paper (that I found, wasn’t supposed to I guess) that he regrets not having a serisous relationship with her. He’s looking her up online and reading her thesis papers (he’s never read anything I’ve written). He’s looking up pictures of her and he even was talking to ME about her for a while before I asked him to stop. Does his regrets about her mean he would trade me to go back in time to be with her?! I don’t get it, he doesn’t even know her! She’s not great looking, I feel like I’m much more attractive, I just don’t understand! I’m heartbroken and he doesn’t think it’s a big deal. HELP!

John answers:

I think you should talk to him about it. It’s not really something someone else can help you with. My advice would just be to talk with him, ask him what is going on, and take it from there.

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