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Sandra asks…

Please help me I’m having relationship problems I don’t know what to do?

I’m 15 years old, I don’t know what to do we knew each other since 6th grade and that’s when we first met in math class.When I was talking too much and my teacher moved me next to her and we started to have alot in common and she liked me but I didn’t because I thought people in my class would make fun of us like the k-i-s-s-i-n-g song or whatever and I liked her alot and didn’t thought I would see her again until next year I did but we were in different classes and we chat online and then I fell in love with her the more I got to talk to her more and more.Everyday I went home fast as I could after school on my computer to see her then later I said I like you too and we started to like each other more and our relationship grew.Then when 8th grade came we were in the same class again but back in 7th grade I was tardy alot because I had so many problems I was sick alot so I stayed home and I got into so many fights and I got scared because the kids in my class told me they would like pick a fight with me.So I came tardy but then later I thought they wont stop unless I teach them a lesson so then I kind of came early sometimes then I just acted my normal self being nice talking to my classmates doing all my work then they were talking about my mom with mom jokes which made me mad and pushed my books on the floor.So I punched him in the face and I had like six fights in one school year but then this lady came to my class when we were in 8th grade together but then she told me I have to back to 7th grade because I had so many tardys.I was so sad I was crying and I wanted to be with her because this would be our last school year then we might go to different high schools but then when we chated online she told me she luved me.I was so stocked I didn’t think she would say it first I was going to but I thought she might not love me and then I said I didn’t think I would ever say this but I Love You will you be my girlfriend and she said yes and then I got her phone number and we talked on the phone like everyday for hours and hours.Everyday after school I always walked her home and holding hands and later when days and days pass I thought and that I really want to kiss her because im so in love with her but I don’t know if she wants to kiss me so I took everything really slow but then I really messed up one day I walked her to her house and I said ummm do you want to kiss me? and I was nervous and shy I never kissed a girl before and she was my first girlfriend and and got nervous then like 30 secs later her dad came outside and I was like awww man then she just said a quick bye and went with her dad.We talked about kissing each other before and she said she would but if I didn’t do this, this wouldn’t happen later she felt like she doesn’t love me anymore and I didn’t get to see her that much only after school and in the morning.I always walk with her and I cant like remember the rest, this happen like in April 2009 and later she broke up with me and we were so in love with each other. On valentine’s day we talked on the phone for 3 hours and 1 or more hour a day and I promised her after high school and college I will marry you and I promised ill have kids with you and she ment everything to me she is like my true love and everyday in school I didn’t do my work or anything all I did was sat at my desk with my head down thinking about her and how much I miss her and days and days and months passed.I still talk to her but I think she hates me now and like ignores me I just don’t know what to do I don’t want to be alone for the rest of my life I’m scared too. I love her with all my heart and I promised I love you forever and ever no matter what and she promised as well.We never argue or anything and she is my future my life my everything she is special to me and is different from any other girl she is the nicest most beautiful girl I ever met and is the perfect girl I been looking for and I know that we were always ment to be together.I really need her I’m so lonely and depressed without her.I feel like doing suicide and I might later in life and this is NOT a joke and I won’t get over her or find anyone else shes the only person that ever made me happy I been depressed like almost all my life and she just makes me so happy I don’t want to lose her I am sorry for typing so much but this is really like about my whole life and how I’m so depressed and I just want to get her back please someone help me =(
P.S. I haven’t slept in days cause of this I am up at night everyday and I force myself to stay up I might die so I lost track I haven’t slept around a week or so forgot but please someone tell me how I can get her back I really need her =(
Sorry for typing so much that’s how depressed I am and about my life kind of. I don’t know what to do please someone take the time to read it.I know its alot and I can’t live without her without her I am nothing my life is falling apart I feel like the most depressed boy in the world and I might do suicide or I don’t know I haven’t slept since she broke up with me.I have Purple bags under my eyes and my eyes hurt like hell.I think about her everyday and I’m just home alone thinking of her and now I’m alone in school because all my friends passed and her but me and she was going to fail a grade just for me I mean just for me that’s how much we both loved each other since I got send back to 7th grade (more details from story) I’m so lonely and depressed everyday without her =(
I miss her so much I’m so lonely and depressed without her and this happen in April since then I been crying almost everyday, haven’t slept in days or weeks forgot lost track, my eyes hurt like hell, and I got purple bags under my eyes.I think about her everyday I can’t live without her and she means everything to me and she is my first girlfriend and I’m her first boyfriend and I know shes the one because my heart tells me and I listen to my heart she is my true love I need her =(
I miss her……. =(

John answers:

I read it all, too. Raven has a good and logical answer.
It does sound like ALL of your energy was going into this relationship, and only that. Not much is devoted to your SELF or your school, or your individual pursuits.
Remember, a relationship, a good one, is about 2 separate people coming together because the other one complements their personality and has another perspective to bring to the table.
It’s also possible the young lady was getting a lot of you. It’s not bad, but you guys are still young. It might be unnerving to her to hear you promise her marriage and children, while she’s still thinking about what she’ll wear next week or something. You may be fully sincere when you say that to her, and the intentions of saying so are good, but don’t smother her, or promise her a lifetime. Take a step back, give her some breathing room. You two have a real relationship, she hasn’t forgot that. But she probably needs time to think about it, to assess her priorities, and so on.
There’s that saying about when you love something to let it go free, and if it comes back, you know it’s yours….worth considering. Good luck with it all, keep writing about it if it helps. Write her letters you don’t send to her. Just get the feelings out, think about why you feel so strongly….

Mark asks…

Please help me I’m having relationship problems I don’t know what to do?

I’m 15 years old I don’t know what to do we knew each other since 6th grade and thats when we first met in math class when I was talking to much and my teacher moved me next to her and we started to have alot in common and she liked me but I didn’t cause I thought people in my class would make fun of us like the k-i-s-s-i-n-g song or whatever and I liked her alot and didn’t thought I would see her again until next year I did but we were in different classes and we chat online and then I fell inlove with her the more I got to talk to her more and more and everyday I went home fast as I could after school everyday on my computer to see her then later I said I like you too and we started to like each other more and our relationship grew then when 8th grade came we were in the same class again but back in 7th grade I was tardy alot cause I had so many problems I was sick alot so I stayed home and I got into so many fights and I got scared cause the kids in my class told me they would like pick a fight with me so I came tardy but then later I thought they wont stop unless I teach them a lesson so then I kind of came early sometimes then I just acted my normal self being nice talking to my classmates doing all my work then they were talking about my mom with mom jokes which made me mad and pushed my books on the floor so I punched him in the face and I had like six fights in one school year but then this lady came to my class when we were in 8th grade together but then she told me I have to back to 7th grade cause I had so many tardys I was so sad I was crying and I wanted to be with her cause this would be our last school year then we might go to different high schools but then when we chated online she told me she luved me and I was so stocked I didn’t think she would say it first I was going to but I thought she might not love me and then I said I didn’t think I would ever say this but I Love You will you be my girlfriend and she said yes and then I got her phone number and we talked on the phone like everyday for hours and hours and everyday after school I always walked her home and holding hands and later when days and days pass I thought and that I really want to kiss her because im so inlove with her but I don’t know if she wants to kiss me so I took everything really slow but then I really messed up one day I walked her to her house and I said ummm do you want to kiss me? and I was nervous and shy I never kissed a girl before and she was my first girlfriend and and got nervous then like 30 secs later her dad came outside and I was like awww man then she just said a quick bye and went with her dad and we talked about kissing each other before and she said she would but if I didn’t do this this wouldn’t happen later she felt like she doesn’t love me anymore and I didn’t get to see her that much only after school and in the morning and I always walk with her and I cant like remember the rest this happen like in apirl 2009 and later she broke up with me and we were so inlove with each other on valentine’s day we talked on the phone for 3 hours and 1 or more hour a day and I promised her after high school and college I will marry you and I promised ill have kids with you and she ment everything to me she is like my true love and everyday in school I didn’t do my work or anything all I did was sat at my desk with my head down thinking about her and how much I miss her and days and days and months passed I still talk to her but I think she hates me now and like ignores me I just don’t know what to do I don’t want to be alone for the rest of my life im scared too I love her with all my heart and I promised I love you forever and ever no matter what and she promised as well we never argue or anything and she is my future my life my everything she is special to me and is different from any other girl she is the nicest most beautiful girl I ever met and is the perfect girl I been looking for and I know that we were always ment to be together and I really need her Im so lonely and depressed without her I felt like doing suicide and I might later in life and this is NOT a joke and I won’t get over her or find anyone else shes the only person that ever made me happy I been depressed like almost all my life and she just makes me so happy I don’t want to lose her I am sorry for typing so much but this is really like about my whole life and how im so depressed and I just want to get her back please someone help me =(
P.S. I haven’t slept in days cause of this I am up at night everyday and I force myself to stay up I might die so I lost track I haven’t slept around a week or so forgot but please someone tell me how I can get her back I really need her =(
sorry for typeing so much thats how depressed I am and about my life kind of I don’t know what to do please someone take the time to read it I know its alot and I can’t live without her without her I am nothing my life is falling apart I feel like the most depressed boy in the world and I might do suicide or I don’t know I haven’t slept since she broke up with me I have Purple bags under my eyes and my eyes hurt like hell I think about her everyday and Im just home alone thinking of her and now when I go back to school ill be alone cause all my friends passed and her but me and she was going to fail a grade just for me I mean just for me thats how much we both loved each other since I got send back to 7th grade (more details from story) im so lonely and depressed everyday without her =(
I miss her so much im so lonely and depressed without her and this happen in April since then I been crying almost everyday haven’t slept in days or weeks forgot lost track my eyes hurt like hell I got purple bags under my eyes I think about her everyday I can’t live without her and she means everything to me and she is my first girlfriend and im her first boyfriend and I know shes the one cause my heart tells me and I listen to my heart she is my true love I need her =(
I miss her……. =(

John answers:

Wow that was alot to read but I really do understand you.
I had a boyfriend who i dated for two years and we did everything together and loved eachother so much and had our kids names picked out and the house we wanted and he was going to stay in town and when I gradated I would commute to college. But I needed to see if he really loved me cause he was being a jerk so we broke up. Instead of showing me how much he loves me he went out and made out with other girls and tryed to get with my friends and did things that made me devistated. I ate to make my feelings go away and I gained 13 pounds and I felt gross and alone and who would want me after I gained weight. And I would just sit at home. But I decided to get up off my ass and show him what he was missing and thats exactly what you need to do! I lost the weight and went out with my friends and did fun things and hung out with other guys and realized what i had been missing out on the world when I was dating him and you heart will heel. Trust me it takes awhile but you will. Plus your still in middle school, things will change in high school! There are more girls and more mature and understanding and wont be like that too you. Any girl who gets you will be lucky, I wish I had a guy who loved me as much as you love her. But just ask your self do you really want her back and always know and have that question in the back of your mind “does she really love me?” or “will she ever love me the way i love her?” you will always have that ache in your heart when you see her but there is hope. But try and get your self up. Make new friends find something to make you happy. And suicide is no way to solve it, im sorry but that is crazy talk. You have your whole life ahead of you, sure its been rough so far and I can relate to that but things always get better and there is always something to live for. Good luck and I hop you get better and I helped you at least a little bit 🙂

Sandy asks…

Trying to cycle a tank..NEED ADVICE!!!?

Set up my 125 and Im having troubles getting it to cycle properly. Ive had it up for about 2 weeks. Keep in mind, my tank is stocked (Oscars, a Jag, a Jack, Flowerhorns, Convicts….). I picked up a master kit and started testing immediatelly. My levels were so high (Nitrites), I couldnt figuire out how the fish were still alive. I read the book in the master kit which said I might need to do daily 20% changes daily for the first week, so I did them for about 3-4 days. The water kept getting hazier. Im using sand substrate, but its been washed GOOD, and it was settled before I transplanted the guys in there. About teh 4th day, I called my local shop. He told me to quit doing changes, as I was starting the cycle over and over. So now Im at almost 2 weeks, and my tank looks like CRAP. I checked my filters last night (2 Aquaclear 110’s), and they had a thick coat of slime and crap on the bottom, so I went ahead and washed em out lightly, enough to knock off the coat of slime. I did research about sponge filters yesterday, so I went and made a few cheaps ones I stuck in there also. This morning, theres really no change. Still looks like I dumped “fog” in the tank. Everyone seems to be doing fine, not stressed and such. WTH is going on? I cant get this water straight. Seems like the more I try, the worse it gets. But it isnt helping NOT doing anything either, just keeps foggy..?? ANY ADVICE for a Noob?? Thought I was over teh Noob stage, but apparently Im still green. PLEASE HELP… I dont wanna start losing my guys 🙁
See? THIS is my problem. I got different ppl telling me advice that dosent even come close to what the last guy told me.
I didnt have the option of doing a fishless cycle. This 125 is taking up most of my dining room. Had to shove my 8″ oscar in a 30 gallon, with his 2 smaller buddies, and he WAS NOT happy. Thought he was going to do the big jump before it was over.
Now, I got differnt ppl telling me how to cycle. Some are saying, “DONT touch it..Just let it do its thing”. Then I got other telling me that I can do water changes and be alright.
I got ppl saying DONT wash the filters (Mine get a THICK coat of shit on them). Others say that I can wash them, long as I use tank water. Got others (who have beautiful tanks), tell me to just wash the filters under tap water and quit being so paranoid.
IDK…. I think I need DEFINITIVE information on my tank. I know everyone has their own methods, but I need the FACTS. IS the sand my problem? HOW should I get the slime off my fi
Just did my tests. My lil tropical tank (set up the same day), is testing great on everything ‘cept Trates. So I think a lil water change should do the trick for them. My 125, tested low Amm, HIGH Trites and HIGH Trates. So, correct me if Im wrong, it seems to be at the last phase of the cycle, right? Id still like to do a SMALL water change ( Mostly to vacuum the poop). Do I seem to be on the right track??
Also, didnt I read that products like Prime, only make the Amm and Trites “unactive”, but they remain in the water, right? So I decided that I didnt want to use those if I could avoid it, so that I knew my tests were accurate, and not reading “unactive” levels.. Now if I start noticing my guys stressing, Ill add whatever I have to to keep em safe and worry about the rest later. But for now, I THINK we’re going to survive, just struggling to get the water LOOKING like its “inhabitable”. :/

John answers:

Ok the guy at the shop was right.no more water changes for now. Most of what you are seeing is free floating bactria that are consuming the nutrients in the tap water phosphates silicates and the like. This happens to tap water after the chlorine is removed and it’s why they put it in there.This is the slime you are seeing on your sponges rinse them lightly in clean declored water to remove. The nitrifying bacteria that cycles your tank grows on the surface objects inside your tank most will establish itself in areas of high flow like your filter medium. This good bactria will need a hard spike of ammonia to establish itself then you will get a hard spike of nitrite this will help establish a second type of bacteria that converts the nitrite to nitrate.It will take up to six weeks for this to occur. Your best bet now is to leave it alone. Reduce the amount of light to a couple of hours a day until completed to reduce stress that the fish will be going though and make no attempts remove ammonia until the cycle completes. This will not be easy on the fish but it can be done. People may come on here and start screaming about a fishless cycle but unless you can move all of your fish to safe tanks this is how to deal with the situation as is. Edit I think I covered every thing in my first post. I will answer the water change question for so everyone needs to listen. THE TANK NEEDS A HARD SPIKE OF AMMONIA FOR THE BACTERIA TO ESTABLISH ITSELF HOW CAN THIS HAPPEN IF YOU KEEP REMOVING THE AMMONIA WITH WATER CHANGES.. IS IT HARD ON THE FISH?. YES IT IS CAN THEY SURVIVE IT? YES THEY CAN. CHANGING WATER DILUTES THE AMMONIA BUT IT IS STILL THERE AND YOU PROLONG THE THESE CONDITIONS BY DILUTING THE AMMONIA THAT IS NEEDED.

Charles asks…

Dont you get tired of hearing “I went 200 mph” on my bike?

Why is it that people with Busa’s swear they have been 200mph on their stock or slightly modded bikes. For starters, the bikes are restricted to 186mph. Also, pretty much every sport riding publication has tested both Busa’s and ZX-14’s WITHOUT restrictions and couldn’t reach 200mph, most of them never even broke 190mph. Cycle World Magazine claimed to have reached a top speed on a 99 un-restricted Busa of 194 mph, but the closest any other national publication got was 190 mph on the 99 un-restricted model. Remember were talking about professional riders on closed courses, not some kid at bike night who thinks the freeway is his personal drag strip.

Another problem that people don’t seem to want to except is that unless the speed your going has been GPS or LIDAR verified, your NOT going that speed. The big 4 motorcycle manufacturers, Independent groups and the prominent Magazines all will and do tell you the same thing……The Speedo’s on the bikes are off. Now they wont say how much, most will down play the numbers to 1-3%, but even if that’s all it was, at 186 mph (less the 3 percent) your actual speed would be 180.4 mph. However most independent studies have confirmed that the number is actually more like between 6-9%. ( which would mean your speedo 186mph is really 11.1-16.7 less that in actual mph).

Its funny, but people seem to think the rule of physics don’t apply to them when the straddle a Sportbike. To even reach 190 mph you have to beat the physics of what it takes to reach that speed. For example…….The Coefficient drag, Aerodynamic drag, tire growth at speed due to increased pressure when it heats up, amount of grip a the pavement has, amount of slippage a tire has (tire slip increases with speed due to aerodynamic drag. The wheel may be spinning at a certain speed but the bike is not.), relative humidity, Esoteric cooling, head or cross winds, rolling resistance, internal resistance and certainly the size of the rider. The bigger the rider, the more amount of drag he/she will generate.

Super Street Bike Magazine took a 2nd Gen Busa to Honda’s 7 mile oval test facility in the Mohave desert with hopes of cracking 200 mph. The rider was over 6 foot, 200 plus lb’s…kinda your “every guy” rider. They modded the busa as follows : KR Tuned full exhaust, PC III, Quick shifter, K&N Filter, TRE and a +25hp shot of NOS. The Busa cracked the dyno at just over 207 hp and the best run they picked up was 194.2 mph.

Now Brocks Performance was able to crack 200mph on a “lesser modded” 2nd gen Busa, but even that is pushing it. They ran full exhaust, PC III, custom mapping, performance filter, specialized on board computer, a team of data analysts on the side, special bearings, lighter wheels, custom made chain, custom made sprockets, modified air box…….but yes they did reach just under 202 mph……lol

I just don’t get how people can say they went 200 mph on stock or lightly modded bikes, when the data clearly shows time and time again…..you cant.

If you haven’t had major engine work done, aren’t running a turbo or serious NOS…..give it up….Next time you think your stock or slightly modded Busa or 14 is getting 200 mph, go to the Texas Mile or to Maxton…..tell them you’re here to join the 200 club…see how well that works out for you…..I’m sure they could use a good laugh.

Your STOCK Hyperbike or 1000 isnt doing 186, your 750 isnt doing 186, your 600 might not even make 160 ACTUAL mph……stop living the lie….your just making yourself look stupid.

As a sport rider myself I get so tired of hearing this “I did 200 or 190 crap” from kids who don’t even know how to balance a check book…..I can’t be the only one can I?

John answers:

You are right on! I used to hear a lot of guys brag, but not so many now. Very few bikes or cars on the road will actually get over 190 mph, I have a good shut down for any braggers, as I have a 200 mph Bonneville record,on a dual engined Kawasaki, (record set in 1979, non believers can look up the record). Best one way was 206.351,on return, with slight tail wind. Down run was only about 194, with a head wind. Tach was 1000 rpm higher on the down run. In 1981, the bike was named “The High Speed Ditch Witch” by another competitor, he got his front tire in a little ditch I dug, and could not get out for 3 miles. In still air, moderately dry salt, top speed was limited to about 204, then wheel spin set in. You get into the same type problems on normal highway, traction is not as critical on highway, but you will still get some slippage, many things combine to determine top speed. With a fairing on the old bike, I had one pass, 3 mph headwind, 209mph. Without fairing, would have been about 200mph, at 1000 rpm more.

Hope this sheds a bit of light on the high speed quirks of the sport.

Tomcotexas,

Susan asks…

Please help me I’m having relationship problems I don’t know what to do?

I’m 15 years old, I don’t know what to do we knew each other since 6th grade and that’s when we first met in math class.When I was talking too much and my teacher moved me next to her and we started to have alot in common and she liked me but I didn’t because I thought people in my class would make fun of us like the k-i-s-s-i-n-g song or whatever and I liked her alot and didn’t thought I would see her again until next year I did but we were in different classes and we chat online and then I fell in love with her the more I got to talk to her more and more.Everyday I went home fast as I could after school on my computer to see her then later I said I like you too and we started to like each other more and our relationship grew.Then when 8th grade came we were in the same class again but back in 7th grade I was tardy alot because I had so many problems I was sick alot so I stayed home and I got into so many fights and I got scared because the kids in my class told me they would like pick a fight with me.So I came tardy but then later I thought they wont stop unless I teach them a lesson so then I kind of came early sometimes then I just acted my normal self being nice talking to my classmates doing all my work then they were talking about my mom with mom jokes which made me mad and pushed my books on the floor.So I punched him in the face and I had like six fights in one school year but then this lady came to my class when we were in 8th grade together but then she told me I have to back to 7th grade because I had so many tardys.I was so sad I was crying and I wanted to be with her because this would be our last school year then we might go to different high schools but then when we chated online she told me she luved me.I was so stocked I didn’t think she would say it first I was going to but I thought she might not love me and then I said I didn’t think I would ever say this but I Love You will you be my girlfriend and she said yes and then I got her phone number and we talked on the phone like everyday for hours and hours.Everyday after school I always walked her home and holding hands and later when days and days pass I thought and that I really want to kiss her because im so in love with her but I don’t know if she wants to kiss me so I took everything really slow but then I really messed up one day I walked her to her house and I said ummm do you want to kiss me? and I was nervous and shy I never kissed a girl before and she was my first girlfriend and and got nervous then like 30 secs later her dad came outside and I was like awww man then she just said a quick bye and went with her dad.We talked about kissing each other before and she said she would but if I didn’t do this, this wouldn’t happen later she felt like she doesn’t love me anymore and I didn’t get to see her that much only after school and in the morning.I always walk with her and I cant like remember the rest, this happen like in April 2009 and later she broke up with me and we were so in love with each other. On valentine’s day we talked on the phone for 3 hours and 1 or more hour a day and I promised her after high school and college I will marry you and I promised ill have kids with you and she ment everything to me she is like my true love and everyday in school I didn’t do my work or anything all I did was sat at my desk with my head down thinking about her and how much I miss her and days and days and months passed.I still talk to her but I think she hates me now and like ignores me I just don’t know what to do I don’t want to be alone for the rest of my life I’m scared too. I love her with all my heart and I promised I love you forever and ever no matter what and she promised as well.We never argue or anything and she is my future my life my everything she is special to me and is different from any other girl she is the nicest most beautiful girl I ever met and is the perfect girl I been looking for and I know that we were always ment to be together.I really need her I’m so lonely and depressed without her.I feel like doing suicide and I might later in life and this is NOT a joke and I won’t get over her or find anyone else shes the only person that ever made me happy I been depressed like almost all my life and she just makes me so happy I don’t want to lose her I am sorry for typing so much but this is really like about my whole life and how I’m so depressed and I just want to get her back please someone help me =(
P.S. I haven’t slept in days cause of this I am up at night everyday and I force myself to stay up I might die so I lost track I haven’t slept around a week or so forgot but please someone tell me how I can get her back I really need her =(
Sorry for typing so much that’s how depressed I am and about my life kind of. I don’t know what to do please someone take the time to read it.I know its alot and I can’t live without her without her I am nothing my life is falling apart I feel like the most depressed boy in the world and I might do suicide or I don’t know I haven’t slept since she broke up with me.I have Purple bags under my eyes and my eyes hurt like hell.I think about her everyday and I’m just home alone thinking of her and now I’m alone in school because all my friends passed and her but me and she was going to fail a grade just for me I mean just for me that’s how much we both loved each other since I got send back to 7th grade (more details from story) I’m so lonely and depressed everyday without her =(
I miss her so much I’m so lonely and depressed without her and this happen in April since then I been crying almost everyday, haven’t slept in days or weeks forgot lost track, my eyes hurt like hell, and I got purple bags under my eyes.I think about her everyday I can’t live without her and she means everything to me and she is my first girlfriend and I’m her first boyfriend and I know shes the one because my heart tells me and I listen to my heart she is my true love I need her =(
I miss her……. =(

John answers:

Well, it is a good thing you got that of your chest. I hope, by now you realize that your relationship is over.

You keep saying that you NEED her, where in fact you do not. You have become too dependent on her, otherwise you would have said you LOVED her, instead of needing.

Get your act back together and march on!

Take care

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