Your Questions About How To Pick Stocks Books

Ruth asks…

Please help me I’m having relationship problems I don’t know what to do?

I’m 15 years old I don’t know what to do we knew each other since 6th grade and that’s when we first met in math class.When I was talking too much and my teacher moved me next to her and we started to have alot in common and she liked me but I didn’t because I thought people in my class would make fun of us like the k-i-s-s-i-n-g song or whatever and I liked her alot and didn’t thought I would see her again until next year I did but we were in different classes and we chat online and then I fell inlove with her the more I got to talk to her more and more.Everyday I went home fast as I could after school on my computer to see her then later I said I like you too and we started to like each other more and our relationship grew.Then when 8th grade came we were in the same class again but back in 7th grade I was tardy alot because I had so many problems I was sick alot so I stayed home and I got into so many fights and I got scared because the kids in my class told me they would like pick a fight with me.So I came tardy but then later I thought they wont stop unless I teach them a lesson so then I kind of came early sometimes then I just acted my normal self being nice talking to my classmates doing all my work then they were talking about my mom with mom jokes which made me mad and pushed my books on the floor.So I punched him in the face and I had like six fights in one school year but then this lady came to my class when we were in 8th grade together but then she told me I have to back to 7th grade because I had so many tardys.I was so sad I was crying and I wanted to be with her because this would be our last school year then we might go to different high schools but then when we chated online she told me she luved me.I was so stocked I didn’t think she would say it first I was going to but I thought she might not love me and then I said I didn’t think I would ever say this but I Love You will you be my girlfriend and she said yes and then I got her phone number and we talked on the phone like everyday for hours and hours.Everyday after school I always walked her home and holding hands and later when days and days pass I thought and that I really want to kiss her because im so inlove with her but I don’t know if she wants to kiss me so I took everything really slow but then I really messed up one day I walked her to her house and I said ummm do you want to kiss me? and I was nervous and shy I never kissed a girl before and she was my first girlfriend and and got nervous then like 30 secs later her dad came outside and I was like awww man then she just said a quick bye and went with her dad.We talked about kissing each other before and she said she would but if I didn’t do this, this wouldn’t happen later she felt like she doesn’t love me anymore and I didn’t get to see her that much only after school and in the morning.I always walk with her and I cant like remember the rest, this happen like in apirl 2009 and later she broke up with me and we were so inlove with each other. On valentine’s day we talked on the phone for 3 hours and 1 or more hour a day and I promised her after high school and college I will marry you and I promised ill have kids with you and she ment everything to me she is like my true love and everyday in school I didn’t do my work or anything all I did was sat at my desk with my head down thinking about her and how much I miss her and days and days and months passed.I still talk to her but I think she hates me now and like ignores me I just don’t know what to do I don’t want to be alone for the rest of my life im scared too. I love her with all my heart and I promised I love you forever and ever no matter what and she promised as well.We never argue or anything and she is my future my life my everything she is special to me and is different from any other girl she is the nicest most beautiful girl I ever met and is the perfect girl I been looking for and I know that we were always ment to be together.I really need her I’m so lonely and depressed without her.I feel like doing suicide and I might later in life and this is NOT a joke and I won’t get over her or find anyone else shes the only person that ever made me happy I been depressed like almost all my life and she just makes me so happy I don’t want to lose her I am sorry for typing so much but this is really like about my whole life and how I’m so depressed and I just want to get her back please someone help me =(
P.S. I haven’t slept in days cause of this I am up at night everyday and I force myself to stay up I might die so I lost track I haven’t slept around a week or so forgot but please someone tell me how I can get her back I really need her =(
Sorry for typing so much that’s how depressed I am and about my life kind of. I don’t know what to do please someone take the time to read it.I know its alot and I can’t live without her without her I am nothing my life is falling apart I feel like the most depressed boy in the world and I might do suicide or I don’t know I haven’t slept since she broke up with me.I have Purple bags under my eyes and my eyes hurt like hell.I think about her everyday and I’m just home alone thinking of her and now I’m alone in school because all my friends passed and her but me and she was going to fail a grade just for me I mean just for me that’s how much we both loved each other since I got send back to 7th grade (more details from story) I’m so lonely and depressed everyday without her =(
I miss her so much I’m so lonely and depressed without her and this happen in April since then I been crying almost everyday, haven’t slept in days or weeks forgot lost track, my eyes hurt like hell, and I got purple bags under my eyes.I think about her everyday I can’t live without her and she means everything to me and she is my first girlfriend and I’m her first boyfriend and I know shes the one because my heart tells me and I listen to my heart she is my true love I need her =(
I miss her……. =(

John answers:

Please, if you are seriously considering suicide, talk to an adult you can trust, please. As far as your story goes, I understand how you feel, miserable and like you’ll never be whole again. I felt the same way when I broke up with my first boyfriend. I was sad all the time and I couldn’t eat or sleep, I just cried until I ran out of tears (Sound familiar?). The only advice my friends gave me was “it’ll get better with time” which is terrible advice, it’s 100% true, but it doesn’t make you fell better at all. So I understand. I know that you are hurting right now, but if you have friends that you can hang out with, I think you should find an activity that you really enjoy and immerse yourself in that for a while. Not forever, but having a distraction to keep your mind off this girl will let you heal a little.
I also think that you should try to sit down with this girl and find out what went wrong between you two, because if it is something that you can fix, do it, but if she honestly doesn’t want anything to do with you anymore, you’re going to have to accept that and move forward with your life. I’m not saying that you’ll be able to pull yourself up by your boot straps and jump back in the game right away, you’ll hurt deeply for a long time, and that’s okay, it’ll teach you how strong you really are. I’m so sorry that you’re feeling like this, having your heart broken is one of the most devastating things that will ever happen to you. Good luck and please talk to someone, before you make a rash decision, honestly suicide is an incredibly permanent answer. People don’t respawn IRL.

Steven asks…

Ok I know people get all weird about talking about their chosen breeds faults but?

Why should we not openly talk about different breeds genetic health issues, temperament differences both good & bad & the breeds little quirks etc. I would rather tell any puppy buyer interested in 1 of my Tibetan Mastiff pups the bad & good & everything I can think of in between so I know they know what the worst case scenario could be etc. I have been told by other TM breeders not to call them aloof or point out how territorial some individual TM’s can be. Yet to me it’s just the facts personally I’m not keen on a big dog that wants to be in my space all the time & lick etc so the fact TM’s are a little aloof & self contained suits me(I have poodles for the in your face love bugs, lol) & makes me feel special that my TM’s aren’t the slightest bit interested in affection from strangers more often than not. Also if you know they can be territorial & same sex aggressive you can train & socialize them better from an early age to help over come of at least temper their attitude towards other full males & being so territorial. My TM’s live in a pack that includes Poodles & Maltese plus I often have fosters of all different breeds & they are great but it is something I worked on from the word go with each & everyone of my dogs.
I don’t know I just don’t get what sweeping things under the rug or turning a blind eye too will do for the betterment of a breed I really don’t. I don’t want to see TM turning up in Australian pounds because their new owner had no idea that a TM was not a great pick for a young couple working long hours who have never owned a strong breed before etc etc etc…..
Last night I heard the TV vet from Bondi saying he wished we could have breeders get a tick of approval from RSPCA that raised puppies in the right environments & cared for their breeding stock correctly & yeah that’s a good idea but I think first & foremost breeders need to start getting real & telling it how it is, as that’s how the right breeds will get into the right homes. Maybe we need an unbiased write up on the Australian Canine Councils websites with a power point presentation about each breeds & their genetic health, temperaments, coats needs & what can be expected of the breed & what definitely can’t be.
So what you you guys think & how can we make it happen, a real website with real unbiased facts about as many breeds as possible with the facts written by someone who has nothing to gain from telling it how it really is & is actually knowledgeable in a hands on type of way as well as book educated on the breeds. Probably take a few different people but surely it’s doable????
Yeah the info is out there BUT you have to dig through the poop to get to the facts on many sites & others may have the facts but they are delivered in a way new dog owners don’t quite understand or believe. I wont a site just dedicated to breed facts that is written in a totally frank unbiased way by educated & hands on individuals that have nothing to gain or lose from giving the facts & their personal opinions.
I too talk people out of my breed often as i just know they are not the right home environment or that I know the breed will not fit the bill of what they want from a pet/companion dog. There are less & less people now who are willing to do more than just be with their dogs yet they expect a sound temperaments social pet with very little input from them. makes me extremely frustrated.

John answers:

Sure, it’s doable. But it would take a long time, and chances are you’ll have trouble getting a lot of people to see it.

I actually try to convince people to NOT get my breed of dog. Being Border Collies, they are one of the highest maintance breeds out there. They are prone to epilepsy and hip&eye problems. They also make the WORST family dogs, as they herd children, which means they bite ankles/wrists/legs of little kids. The number one reason that Border Collies are surrendered is because they have bitten someone – almost inevitably a child. I make this VERY clear to anyone who is looking to adopt one of my foster dogs.

Linda asks…

Please help me I’m having relationship problems I don’t know what to do?

I’m 15 years old, I don’t know what to do we knew each other since 6th grade and that’s when we first met in math class.When I was talking too much and my teacher moved me next to her and we started to have alot in common and she liked me but I didn’t because I thought people in my class would make fun of us like the k-i-s-s-i-n-g song or whatever and I liked her alot and didn’t thought I would see her again until next year I did but we were in different classes and we chat online and then I fell in love with her the more I got to talk to her more and more.Everyday I went home fast as I could after school on my computer to see her then later I said I like you too and we started to like each other more and our relationship grew.Then when 8th grade came we were in the same class again but back in 7th grade I was tardy alot because I had so many problems I was sick alot so I stayed home and I got into so many fights and I got scared because the kids in my class told me they would like pick a fight with me.So I came tardy but then later I thought they wont stop unless I teach them a lesson so then I kind of came early sometimes then I just acted my normal self being nice talking to my classmates doing all my work then they were talking about my mom with mom jokes which made me mad and pushed my books on the floor.So I punched him in the face and I had like six fights in one school year but then this lady came to my class when we were in 8th grade together but then she told me I have to back to 7th grade because I had so many tardys.I was so sad I was crying and I wanted to be with her because this would be our last school year then we might go to different high schools but then when we chated online she told me she luved me.I was so stocked I didn’t think she would say it first I was going to but I thought she might not love me and then I said I didn’t think I would ever say this but I Love You will you be my girlfriend and she said yes and then I got her phone number and we talked on the phone like everyday for hours and hours.Everyday after school I always walked her home and holding hands and later when days and days pass I thought and that I really want to kiss her because im so in love with her but I don’t know if she wants to kiss me so I took everything really slow but then I really messed up one day I walked her to her house and I said ummm do you want to kiss me? and I was nervous and shy I never kissed a girl before and she was my first girlfriend and and got nervous then like 30 secs later her dad came outside and I was like awww man then she just said a quick bye and went with her dad.We talked about kissing each other before and she said she would but if I didn’t do this, this wouldn’t happen later she felt like she doesn’t love me anymore and I didn’t get to see her that much only after school and in the morning.I always walk with her and I cant like remember the rest, this happen like in April 2009 and later she broke up with me and we were so in love with each other. On valentine’s day we talked on the phone for 3 hours and 1 or more hour a day and I promised her after high school and college I will marry you and I promised ill have kids with you and she ment everything to me she is like my true love and everyday in school I didn’t do my work or anything all I did was sat at my desk with my head down thinking about her and how much I miss her and days and days and months passed.I still talk to her but I think she hates me now and like ignores me I just don’t know what to do I don’t want to be alone for the rest of my life I’m scared too. I love her with all my heart and I promised I love you forever and ever no matter what and she promised as well.We never argue or anything and she is my future my life my everything she is special to me and is different from any other girl she is the nicest most beautiful girl I ever met and is the perfect girl I been looking for and I know that we were always ment to be together.I really need her I’m so lonely and depressed without her.I feel like doing suicide and I might later in life and this is NOT a joke and I won’t get over her or find anyone else shes the only person that ever made me happy I been depressed like almost all my life and she just makes me so happy I don’t want to lose her I am sorry for typing so much but this is really like about my whole life and how I’m so depressed and I just want to get her back please someone help me =(
P.S. I haven’t slept in days cause of this I am up at night everyday and I force myself to stay up I might die so I lost track I haven’t slept around a week or so forgot but please someone tell me how I can get her back I really need her =(
Sorry for typing so much that’s how depressed I am and about my life kind of. I don’t know what to do please someone take the time to read it.I know its alot and I can’t live without her without her I am nothing my life is falling apart I feel like the most depressed boy in the world and I might do suicide or I don’t know I haven’t slept since she broke up with me.I have Purple bags under my eyes and my eyes hurt like hell.I think about her everyday and I’m just home alone thinking of her and now I’m alone in school because all my friends passed and her but me and she was going to fail a grade just for me I mean just for me that’s how much we both loved each other since I got send back to 7th grade (more details from story) I’m so lonely and depressed everyday without her =(
I miss her so much I’m so lonely and depressed without her and this happen in April since then I been crying almost everyday, haven’t slept in days or weeks forgot lost track, my eyes hurt like hell, and I got purple bags under my eyes.I think about her everyday I can’t live without her and she means everything to me and she is my first girlfriend and I’m her first boyfriend and I know shes the one because my heart tells me and I listen to my heart she is my true love I need her =(
I miss her……. =(

John answers:

Ok, first of all (I’m not laughing with you), you need a diary or something! It looks like you wrote down EVERYTHING you’ve ever felt, and it looks like in your head there’s a big mess. I know diaries aren’t very manly, but I think it would help you a lot to get a clear view on this situation and the mess in your head if you could write it all down. It helps you to put things in perspective.

Second, do you know the saying ‘sleeping on something’? Try to relax, go to bed and in the morning, I promise you, you’ll have a much better view on this situation!

Then third, your situation. I’ll just tell you my point of view, I don’t know your girl, and I can’t know what she feels, but if you would tell me all those things, about marrying, and meaning the whole world and the entire future, it would freak me out. Even though I’d feel the same way about someone, it’s scary to hear all of that in one time! So slow down a bit! What I suggest you to do is to clear up the mess that you are. Take a step back, and get out of this depression. A girl wants a guy that can take care of himself, that has his emotions in control. Girls want to feel safe with a guy, not like a millstone.

When your emotions are ok again, and you have your confidence back, then you’re ready for the next step! Then you just tell her you still have a lot of feelings for her, and if she still loves you, you’ll be there for her. Don’t scare her by saying things like she’s your true love and that you’d die for her! Save those words for when you get married! 🙂 Build a stable relationship with her first, and then step by step you tell her your feelings.

Also remember that a relationship should be a bonus in your life, not something to complete your life. To build a stable relationship you have to be stable yourself as well! Take your time to get yourself together, don’t expect to do this in a week, take at least a month for yourself and to figure out this whole situation.

You seem like the nicest guy, and she would be crazy not to like you! Try not to be the needy guy and get over your depression first! Then when you guys are back together, you walk up to her and you kiss her without hesitating and you show her who’s the man!

Lots of luck! X

James asks…

Please help me I’m having relationship problems I don’t know what to do?

I’m 15 years old, I don’t know what to do we knew each other since 6th grade and that’s when we first met in math class.When I was talking too much and my teacher moved me next to her and we started to have alot in common and she liked me but I didn’t because I thought people in my class would make fun of us like the k-i-s-s-i-n-g song or whatever and I liked her alot and didn’t thought I would see her again until next year I did but we were in different classes and we chat online and then I fell in love with her the more I got to talk to her more and more.Everyday I went home fast as I could after school on my computer to see her then later I said I like you too and we started to like each other more and our relationship grew.Then when 8th grade came we were in the same class again but back in 7th grade I was tardy alot because I had so many problems I was sick alot so I stayed home and I got into so many fights and I got scared because the kids in my class told me they would like pick a fight with me.So I came tardy but then later I thought they wont stop unless I teach them a lesson so then I kind of came early sometimes then I just acted my normal self being nice talking to my classmates doing all my work then they were talking about my mom with mom jokes which made me mad and pushed my books on the floor.So I punched him in the face and I had like six fights in one school year but then this lady came to my class when we were in 8th grade together but then she told me I have to back to 7th grade because I had so many tardys.I was so sad I was crying and I wanted to be with her because this would be our last school year then we might go to different high schools but then when we chated online she told me she luved me.I was so stocked I didn’t think she would say it first I was going to but I thought she might not love me and then I said I didn’t think I would ever say this but I Love You will you be my girlfriend and she said yes and then I got her phone number and we talked on the phone like everyday for hours and hours.Everyday after school I always walked her home and holding hands and later when days and days pass I thought and that I really want to kiss her because im so in love with her but I don’t know if she wants to kiss me so I took everything really slow but then I really messed up one day I walked her to her house and I said ummm do you want to kiss me? and I was nervous and shy I never kissed a girl before and she was my first girlfriend and and got nervous then like 30 secs later her dad came outside and I was like awww man then she just said a quick bye and went with her dad.We talked about kissing each other before and she said she would but if I didn’t do this, this wouldn’t happen later she felt like she doesn’t love me anymore and I didn’t get to see her that much only after school and in the morning.I always walk with her and I cant like remember the rest, this happen like in April 2009 and later she broke up with me and we were so in love with each other. On valentine’s day we talked on the phone for 3 hours and 1 or more hour a day and I promised her after high school and college I will marry you and I promised ill have kids with you and she ment everything to me she is like my true love and everyday in school I didn’t do my work or anything all I did was sat at my desk with my head down thinking about her and how much I miss her and days and days and months passed.I still talk to her but I think she hates me now and like ignores me I just don’t know what to do I don’t want to be alone for the rest of my life I’m scared too. I love her with all my heart and I promised I love you forever and ever no matter what and she promised as well.We never argue or anything and she is my future my life my everything she is special to me and is different from any other girl she is the nicest most beautiful girl I ever met and is the perfect girl I been looking for and I know that we were always ment to be together.I really need her I’m so lonely and depressed without her.I feel like doing suicide and I might later in life and this is NOT a joke and I won’t get over her or find anyone else shes the only person that ever made me happy I been depressed like almost all my life and she just makes me so happy I don’t want to lose her I am sorry for typing so much but this is really like about my whole life and how I’m so depressed and I just want to get her back please someone help me =(
P.S. I haven’t slept in days cause of this I am up at night everyday and I force myself to stay up I might die so I lost track I haven’t slept around a week or so forgot but please someone tell me how I can get her back I really need her =(
Sorry for typing so much that’s how depressed I am and about my life kind of. I don’t know what to do please someone take the time to read it.I know its alot and I can’t live without her without her I am nothing my life is falling apart I feel like the most depressed boy in the world and I might do suicide or I don’t know I haven’t slept since she broke up with me.I have Purple bags under my eyes and my eyes hurt like hell.I think about her everyday and I’m just home alone thinking of her and now I’m alone in school because all my friends passed and her but me and she was going to fail a grade just for me I mean just for me that’s how much we both loved each other since I got send back to 7th grade (more details from story) I’m so lonely and depressed everyday without her =(
I miss her so much I’m so lonely and depressed without her and this happen in April since then I been crying almost everyday, haven’t slept in days or weeks forgot lost track, my eyes hurt like hell, and I got purple bags under my eyes.I think about her everyday I can’t live without her and she means everything to me and she is my first girlfriend and I’m her first boyfriend and I know shes the one because my heart tells me and I listen to my heart she is my true love I need her =(
I miss her……. =(

John answers:

Just tell her how you feel

Donna asks…

What books are similiar to the Dorina Basarb series by Karen Chance?

Straight up: I’ve seen this question answered on here a few times, but I’ve either read the series or I’m just not interested in it. So let me be more specific: when I say similarties, I mean in the way Chance’s characters come off as being real and actually three-dimensional, rather than the stock character most UF series seem to have. I mean similiar in the way it’s a non-stop thrill ride with sarcasm and humor and heart-breaking honest in every other page. I mean similiar in that I haven’t read the plot in the last three books I picked up by three other authors and can predict exactly where this story is going before I hit page 52. If you can answer this question, awesome! If not, please, PLEASE, don’t bother answering. Respect the question for what it is, thank you. Anyway, I don’t want to hear about Anita Blake (sorry but slutty chicks aren’t my thing) and I don’t want to read about anything in the Nighthuntress Universe, because I’ve read most of those books and have completely lost interest. I’m looking for plot as opposed to how many sexual encounters someone can manage to squeeze into 400 pages. I want a UF book that makes me actually care whether the main character lives or dies, isn’t freaking stupid or some major slut that every dude is falling over, and where the book actually has a POINT and by this I mean there’s a plot other than “and they fell happily and hopelessly in love after knowing each other four days and shagging thirty and lived happily ever after…until book 2 when you see them again from another characters POV.” Sorry, but the only novels I like are JR Ward’s BDB series, and, suprise, IT HAS A PLOT BEYOND SEX! If you can help me out, much obliged. If not, all good.

John answers:

You haven’t said what other series you have read, so I hope I’m not repeating others here.

First series that comes to mind is Kate Daniels by Ilona Andrews. I adore this series. Kate is smart and funny and doesn’t do idiotic things that only serve to move the plot along. There is a romance that stretches over several books, and whilst it’s completely delicious, it’s far from being the main focus of the story.

Another favourite series of mine is the Jane Yellowrock series by Faith Hunter. Jane is a shapeshifter with a wild cat that lives in her head. It’s unusual because of the two personalities (Jane’s and Beast’s). There are lots of rather scary vampires and political intrigue within the plot, and I think the books are a great read. There is something of a love triangle, but again, it’s a secondary plot.

A third series that’s slightly different is the Kara Gillian series by Diana Rowland. The lead character in this book is a police detective by day, and she raises demons in her basement at night. It does have something of a police procedural/UF crossover, but it’s really well done with interesting characters that you’re desperate to know more about. Again, a small love triangle between a nice, decent guy (or is he!!) and the sexiest demon ever!

The thing I like about all of these series is that they all have an element of mystery about the lead characters, which carries over several books and more details are teasingly revealed with each book (especially the Kara Gillian one, where I’m DESPERATE for the next book!). I think they’re all well written with good plots and non-idiotic characters. Romance and sex are there, but it’s definitely no more than in the Dory books.

I hope one of these is what you’re looking for. Good luck!

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